{"id":38914,"date":"2019-06-08T07:00:47","date_gmt":"2019-06-08T07:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ae.com\/aerie-real-life\/?p=38914"},"modified":"2019-06-05T19:16:55","modified_gmt":"2019-06-05T19:16:55","slug":"self-care-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ae.com\/aerie-real-life\/2019\/06\/08\/self-care-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"#AerieREAL Life Workshop: Self-care &#038; friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cI will take care of me for you, and you will take care of you for me.\u201d \u2013 Alex, Workshop Participant<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this #AerieREAL Life Workshop, Cultural Expert &amp; CEO of Talk To Jess, Jess Weiner, and&nbsp;#AerieREAL Role Model &amp; Self-Care Activist, Iskra, lead us through a REAL conversation about self-care and friendships. You\u2019ll leave with some essential tools to help you create healthy boundaries in your friendships and most importantly, you\u2019ll learn how to best support your own self-care. Whether you\u2019re looking for ways to be a better friend or trying to figure out how to let a friendship go, let this workshop be your roadmap as you navigate it all. We broke this workshop into 5 parts:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>How do you define self-care?<\/li><li>Who is in your Esteem Team?<\/li><li>Creating a love list&nbsp;<\/li><li>Knowing what you need<\/li><li>Moving forward in your friendships&nbsp;<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>As always, you have the option to watch them all or pick which topic feels best for you today.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. How do you define self-care?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ChZPTN5HzfE?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Who is in your Esteem Team?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/HcdVisO_CbI?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aligncenter\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ae.com\/aerie-real-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/8.5x11-ARL-ESTEEM-TEAM.pdf\">DOWNLOAD AN ESTEEM TEAM WORKSHEET<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Your Esteem Team is the people in your life who truly see you for who you are and have your back.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Start by writing your name in the center circle. In the next circle, write your go-to people who are closest to you. It could be 1 person, or it could be a few. In the outer circle, write the people who are orbiting around you\u2014 maybe it\u2019s friends you haven\u2019t been in touch with, but would like to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is zero judgement in this exercise. Give yourself the time and space to think about the quality of your relationships, and assess which voices you want to tune into and honor, and which ones you may not want to hear from.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Creating a love list<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TINikm8U-bk?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aligncenter\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ae.com\/aerie-real-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/8.5x11-ARL-I-LOVE.pdf\">DOWNLOAD A LOVE LIST<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Take a moment to think about and write down what you love. What do you love to do? What brings you happiness? What makes you feel refreshed? Write it all down, and come back to it when you need a refresher on how to create and maintain your self-care routine.&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Knowing what you need<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/JdZgLhLFfcQ?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aligncenter\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ae.com\/aerie-real-life\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/8.5x11-ARL-SUPPORT.pdf\">DOWNLOAD A SUPPORT WORKSHEET<br><\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019re not a mind reader, and neither are your friends. 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